Below is sample text from the Cosmo Compatibility Report, from Kepler; Cosmic Patterns Software Program.
Jon's Sun in Aquarius and Rebecca's Sun in Pisces:
Both of you are very open-minded and tolerant toward new ideas, the unusual and unconventional. Jon, however, is much more cerebral than Rebecca, who is essentially intuitive and emotional. While Jon is cool, rational and always able to give excellent reasons for an opinion or position, Rebecca is frequently unable to articulate the feeling, values and subtleties that color and shape her attitude or position. Also, Rebecca is a very sympathetic, compassionate person who feels others' needs and pain very directly. Jon has a humanitarian outlook but is often more concerned with Principles and Ideals rather than with real people and their actual human situations. Jon, in fact, is capable of considerable emotional detachment and objectivity - unlike Rebecca who is hopelessly subjective.
Jon is uncomfortable with too much emotionality and dependency, and Rebecca may want more sympathetic understanding than Jon is capable of.
Jon's Moon in Pisces and Rebecca's Moon in Aquarius:
Your emotional rhythms and temperaments are rather different. Jon is gentle, non-competitive, somewhat passive, and has a need to withdraw or "get away from it all" on a regular basis. Rebecca, on the other hand, needs involvement in the world and enjoys being in the flow of contemporary life.
More significantly, Jon is very sensitive emotionally and psychically, and is a deeply feeling person, while Rebecca responds more rationally and intellectually to people and situations. Rebecca has strong humanitarian or idealistic impulses, but frequently lacks empathy in personal situations, whereas Jon is so tender-hearted that others sometimes take advantage.
Rebecca is too cool, emotionally detached, and mental to suit Jon sometimes. Rebecca needs intellectual stimulation and companionship, and is rather uncomfortable with excessive displays of feeling and Jon's emotionality in general. Also, Jon is highly intuitive, whereas Rebecca needs scientific evidence or support of the things that Jon takes on faith. Rebecca questions Jon's hunches and emotional or psychic impressions. However, Rebecca can also help Jon get some distance and clarity about the emotional situations that Jon gets so immersed in.
Note: In Astrology, the Sun represents the rational and logical part of us, and the Moon is more subjective and highlights our emotional side.
With this chart interpretation, we have a complimentary switch so to speak ie: Rebecca's Moon is the same sign as Jon's Sun, and Jon's Moon is the same sign as Rebecca's Sun. It often bodes well to have one persons Sun or Moon in their partners sign. They can identify with the traits of the other, even if they don't behave the same in this area - using the catchphrase; "opposites attract"!
Having said that, in this case we can see that there are contradictions in these interpretations for both Jon and Rebecca. For instance, we have Jon who is more cerebral than Rebecca when we read the Sun signs, however, the dynamics switch when comparing the Moon signs, where Rebecca is the less emotional partner.
We are all quite complicated and often contradictory in our day to day activities, many people display certain behaviours at different times; however, when we have the Sun and Moon in opposite signs, this creates a certain level of difficulty as we may not understand why we can act rationally at one moment, and then become totally emotional at other times. A simple explanation is that the Sun represents the "head" and the Moon signifies the "heart" - therefore when they are in opposite signs, they don't work together as a team. Although this is not a big problem for the individual, it is quite important to understand this and develop ways to turn it into a benefit eg: strength and compassion operating simultaneously.
Jon's Sun Trine Rebecca's Jupiter:
The two of you really enjoy each other's company! Rebecca has a great deal of confidence in Jon and is able to see Jon's best qualities. You are very encouraging and supportive of each other, helping each other to be more confident, open new doors, and advance and grow in both inner and outer ways. This positive note of good will and harmony is also invaluable in helping the two of you overcome differences in temperament and other stressful aspects of your relationship discussed elsewhere in this report.
Rebecca's Sun Trine Jon's Pluto:
Jon helps Rebecca achieve personal goals, activate Rebecca's latent talents and strengths, and encourages and promotes Rebecca's creative work and endeavors. You can be a very successful duo. However, Jon can be more driving and ambitious for Rebecca than Rebecca is, like the "stage mother" who pushes her child to shine and to excel even when it is not the child's own aspiration. Jon can have a profound influence on Rebecca, most likely for the good, but possibly not. Subtle manipulation and domination on Jon's part should be avoided.
Jon's Moon Opposition Rebecca's Neptune
You enjoy sharing your hopes, ideals, social concerns, dreams and fantasies. You work well together in areas that require great imagination, such as the arts and music.
Rebecca's Moon Sextile Jon's Mars:
Your relationship is dynamic and energetic. If both of you enjoy athletic sports or other physical activities, you will have a wonderful time sharing these interests. You work well as a team and you are able to coordinate your efforts in a very harmonious, successful way.
Jon's Mercury Conjunct Rebecca's Saturn:
You two can have serious communication problems. Rebecca can help Jon clarify and define ideas, but very often ends up criticizing or belittling them instead which makes Jon doubt, withhold, or simply be quiet. Rebecca needs to be very careful not to interrupt, ignore, or judge Jon when Jon is speaking. Also, your conversations tend to focus on serious topics or practical affairs and business, which can become dull for one or both of you.
Jon's Mercury Opposition Rebecca's Pluto:
Your conversations have a deep, probing quality. You uncover hidden aspects of yourselves and, in general, you find that you can share at a much deeper level than you can with most people. If you encounter a topic where you strongly disagree with each other, you will both hammer on this issue until it is resolved or until death - whichever comes first!
Jon's Mercury Square Rebecca's Uranus:
You often say things to shock or shake up each other, and you can get very high-strung when you are together. You tend to set a fast pace. You may also find yourselves periodically jumping on a new bandwagon, experimenting with a new idea, or exploring new alternatives. However, the impatience with each other is likely to cause sudden arguments and anger to flare.
Rebecca's Mercury Square Jon's Saturn:
Jon is often critical and coldly analytical of Rebecca's ideas, and Rebecca is likely to feel belittled by Jon. If both of you are able to offer criticisms and comments with a helpful, positive attitude, then this astrological influence need not be overwhelming, but the tendency to feel blocked and frustrated in your communications is very strong. You must make sincere efforts to listen receptively and sympathetically!
Jon's Mercury Sextile Rebecca's Venus:
You love to discuss the arts, literature, culture, or any other area that involves a strong aesthetic or emotional element. You are also likely to work successfully together in artistic, literary, or some humanitarian area. Your admiration for each other fosters a lasting, harmonious friendship.
Jon's Venus Conjunct Rebecca's Saturn:
You respect each other and generally are very courteous and polite to each other. Your interactions are somewhat formal, even stilted at times, and Jon, in particular, sometimes feels inhibited and restrained around Rebecca.
Jon's Venus Opposition Rebecca's Pluto:
Powerful subconscious emotional drives come into play in this relationship and you may become exceedingly attached to one another, as well as very jealous and manipulative at times. This is not a superficial friendship. Do make sure your intentions, motives, and purposes are above board and clear; otherwise, you can become enmeshed in emotional or financial entanglements with one another.
Rebecca's Venus Trine Jon's Saturn:
There is a great deal of mutual trustworthiness, reliability, and responsibility in this relationship that makes you both feel that you can count on each other. You willingly make sacrifices for each other, and a deep friendship between you develops over time. You will assist each other a great deal over the years.
Rebecca's Venus Trine Jon's Pluto:
You can have a very deep friendship because there is little you can hide from each other and you instinctively confide and reveal your true selves to each other. You may have met at an important crossroads or transition or crisis in your lives, which brought you close together very quickly. In any case, you have a very strong connection and appreciation for one another.
Jon's Venus Sextile Rebecca's Venus:
There is a beautiful flow of love between the two of you, and you are able to both give and receive affection, appreciation, and tenderness in this relationship. You enjoy the same pleasures and find it easy and natural to do those things that really please and make your friend happy. Your tastes in aesthetics is also very compatible.
Rebecca's Mars Square Jon's Saturn:
In your friendship, Rebecca is the eager, passionate, active and impulsive one, and Jon frequently puts on the brakes or tries to control, play down, and restrain Rebecca's desires and drives. Rebecca is likely to feel very frustrated, angry or discouraged if Jon expresses disapproval or caution too often, and this can be a source of considerable friction between you. Jon feels overwhelmed and envious of Rebecca's intensity and assertiveness, but instead of trying to hold Rebecca down, Jon should confront the fears and inhibitions that Rebecca's directness evokes.
